The algorithm is harvesting your attention.
It is time to take it back.
Every dot on the right is one week of your life. Black is living. Red is dead time.
Based on 80y Expectancy // 16h Waking Day
Like a slot machine, the feed is unpredictable. You pull to refresh, hoping for a "win" (a like, a message, a funny video). The uncertainty releases 400% more dopamine than a guaranteed reward.
In the real world, books end, plays finish, the sun sets. The internet has no bottom. Infinite scroll removes "stopping cues," keeping you in a zombie state of consumption.
The "read receipt" and "typing bubbles" are designed to create anxiety. They hijack your innate evolutionary drive to not be ostracized by the tribe.
The phone must not sleep where you sleep.
Make the device a tool, not a toy.
Fill the void with high-quality analog activities.
Color is data. Remove the data, remove the desire.
The phone lives by the door. It is a guest in your home, not a resident.
Urge to scroll? Wait 10 minutes. The craving is a wave; surf it.
At dinner, stack phones. First to touch pays the bill.
Try getting lost. Use a paper map. Engage your spatial brain.